{Edition Three} Tricks of the Trade

 

I’m writing from a strange computer in a familiar place.
Back “home”, which is Pennsylvania.  
There are a myriad of mac computers, which are quite complicated to me.
Control + C doesn’t copy. I don’t know how to paste.
And I love my little shortcuts on a normal computer.
I’m behind the mac-times like that.

But I am finding myself in the midst of a quiet afternoon, all alone in the house actually.
Sister-to-be-married is getting some beauty things done :)
Other sisters took one of my girls,
mother took the other on another errand,
brothers and father are gone,
husband is still in the south and will be arriving over the weekend.

It’s so fun to be here, to have time to spend with the family before the busyness of the wedding next weekend.
It’s harder to be gone from husband with two little children for a longer amount of time,
but he was gracious and my family is so helpful.
The Little Love is due is less than five weeks, so we are not giving him/her any options but to hold tight until after the wedding. :)

There hasn’t been a wedding in the family for almost 7 years, when Ben and I got married,
so this is high excitement.
I get to be in on last dress fittings, wedding details, reception decor,
and I love it. :)

But I can’t show too many pictures yet and give away the bride’s wedding detail secrets!
Later. :)

But I wanted to do the third [and last] edition of the Tricks of the Trade!
There have been some wonderful contributions, and I love it!
Thank you so much to all of you who sent in pictures and ideas!
I was a little nervous at first that I’d have some blank posts, and no responses, but it’s been wonderful.
I am very much indebted to you!

So enjoy these last ideas and tips! :) 

And it’s with a resounding cheer that I bring you these lovely ladies!

 

Cindy

i LOVE organizational bins!boxes!jars!labels!

(if i had a label maker and laminator? i would need an intervention for sure.
nothing would be safe. i’m a dork that way.)

and yet. while i can point at what i’m working on. there’s so much more…haha. that i’m not.
and should be.

but this is all about sharing. learning. and fun. right?

my top three fav things are:  
(my favs are directly related to staying sane efforts.)

1. my bin labeled “too small”

 
my kids grow out of stuff left and right.
it gives me a place to stash those items out of the way,
till i can sort what i want to share with friends or give to the goodwill.

2. my box labeled
“things i am not wearing but cannot part with yet.”

sounds dumb.
but. it gets my odds and ends out of the way.
while i pray for a re-purposing brain cell to suddenly activate in my head.

3.color coded cups and folders for my kids.

seriously. before color assignments for precious children?
we would have used 20 or more drinking glasses a day. made me nuts.
the folders are mine to keep important school info, report cards etc. throughout the school year.
handy because i can read colors faster than words. ;)

i want a bulletin board for my kids…but till then…
old frame (needs to be painted. what do you think?) for free.
thick dollar store foam board. (can you guess how much?)
hemp string and clothespins.
cheap with acmoore coupon
free map and i now have a…
a place in addition to my fridge, doors and walls :) to hang my kid’s masterpieces!

i am loving making tags and labels using old book pages.
i use alot of cardboard boxes for bins that i got for free.
(the bigger bins here are for shelves above our desk.)
bought brads with coupon at hobbylobby. cheap.
covered boxes with fabric scraps. free.
using spray adhesive. cheap.
i like writing free.
sorry ’bout that.
or paper and glue sticks. which are cheap.
i like writing cheap too.
sorry ’bout that.

if you haven’t thought *dork* already, this one will do it.
but trust me. i have very good reasons.
our house is old, we heat with coal, our closets were built on stone walls.
let’s just say dusty, dirty and damp.
so to save my shoes, i keep the boxes (yes. space hogs i know)
and when i was weary of digging through boxes…
i *blush* had a photoshoot with my shoes and pasted the pictures on the boxes.
like colors, i read pictures faster than words.

the remainder of the pics are just misc for toys, shoes, ribbon etc.

 

 

and this one is seven recipes taped to the inside of my kitchen cupboard.
it’s my “save my procrastinating butt” approach to dinner. :)
all of them are ways to use one pound of hamburger
and have a meal ready in about 30 minutes or less. 

  

 

Gabrielle




 

I love our spices like this.  Years ago we’d done the lazy-susan idea but we never could find what we needed fast and we’d tried the stair-stacking idea but then when you get one in the back all the rest would fall down.  Here we used the spice racks from the container store.   I love ours like this because they’re right by the stove and I can quickly get to them and they’re put in there alphabetically so their easy to find too.  Actually the ones we use the most don’t even have labels on them because they’ve worn off.
 
If you had more room on your door and did it just right you could probably figure out a size of spice you buy at the store and just use those jars instead emptying them into glass ones.  We just didn’t have enough room here and it works fine.



Next up is our teeny tiny corner closet.  Literally its not more than like 1 foot by 3 feet at the most but its 9 feet tall. 
What do you do with such a closet?  You make it into a wrapping “center” 


The wrapping paper is held up along the outside of the shelf at the top of the roll
by jumbo rubberbands fastened onto long nails sticking out in the corners. 
So all we have to do to get it is slide it out and its easy to put back too.  Hope that makes sense.  
(though right now weve got a couple wrapping papers that are either to long or too big that dont fit too well.)

Second Shelf is bows and ribbon

Third is gifts and packaging stuff

Fourth is bags

Tissue paper is on the door in ziplocks nailed on the door with pins

 


Here’s my mom’s card/craft room.  She just recently organized this and I thought I’d show it off. :)
  Again this is a really tiny room. It was hard to get pictures.   It’s actually one of the 3 dormers and right off a bedroom and closet.

  

 

Here’s where we keep the stamps, idea books, paper and some supplies. 
The ribbon and glue and ink pads are in old sewing machine drawers.


 

And lastly laundry, that thing that all mothers seem to talk about and that’s never caught up.  Growing up we had baskets labeled for whites, permanent press, towels, jeans, and maybe a few others.  Even little kiddos can do this. Every morning people would bring their clothes to the laundry room and sort them out.  Then, when the washing was done, each person had also a box-you can kinda see the big brown boxes at the bottom of the picture and that’s where all the clean clothes would go.  They could then empty them out whenever they got around to it.  That means all the laundry would stay in the laundry room unless it was put away.  Nowadays since there is only 3 of us we each have our own baskets and then a whites and towels one and a few extras.


 


 

Lucy

Organizational theory #1. Put everything in its place right away instead of making a pile to take care of later. It might mean a couple extra steps now, but will save time. Which leads me to. . .

Theory #2: If it doesn’t have a “place”, it might need to be gotten rid of. That theory either motivates me to find a space quickly or take a trip to the thrift store.

Theory #3: Be a minimalist. I hate clutter and since I live in a two story row-house with two closets and no attic, storage place is precious. It has turned me into a bit of a minimalist. I seriously look at my overflowing closet full of clothes, sometimes and just want to rip out half of it and give it away. And honestly, I can live with way less. 

P.S. Just a side note about the minimalist theory. After a trip to Ikea’s showroom one day, I lay in bed that night freaking out about how much stuff and space we really have. I figured out that we could totally live on our first floor (if we had designed things different during the remodel), and we could divide our upstairs into two rental units . It would be so practical. Crazy, yes, but practical. :)

 

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Thank you so much! All you who contributed, and those of you who encouraged those who contributed!
This was such a fun thing for me to do, and I was often in open-mouthed amazement
at the wonderful ideas that came in! Some of these I will definitely be trying in my own home!
Many many thanks! 

 

~clarita

 

 

{Edtion Two} Tricks of the Trade

 

I just returned from a most lovely weekend away in the company of nearly 30 beautiful ladies. 
I flew on a jet plane for the first time in years, that was so fun in itself!
I am still whirling mentally from all the conversation and late nights, and smiling at the memories made.
Getting to meet such beautiful women in real life that I’ve only dreamt of interacting with…
Words evade me about details. :) But a huge thank you to those of you present ~ you know who you are!

 

Thank you for the comments and feedback on the first Guest Post!
I am thinking I’d like to have them a regular feature. Or goodness, they may as well just take over.
They’re far more popular. :)

And this is just a little heads-up for whoever is interested…
Ervina and Claudia began a blog when they were in Cambodia for several months in the summer of 2010.
And Claudia has a small business making lovely feathered headbands and headpieces, found on facebook at The Feather Factory.
100% of all profits go toward the ministry in Cambodia.

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And now this is like a second guest post, only by many contributors!

At first when I gave the invitation made the plea for organization tips and ideas,
I was a bit nervous that I’d be left high and dry and end up saying [sheepishly],
“Umm, sorry, ladies, but um, no one sent ideas…….”

I am so very happy to say that there were so many wonderful tips and ideas given,
and they should probably each have their own post, there were that many!
I am so grateful and very much indebted to you all! Thank you, thank you!
There are so many great ideas, and as they kept coming in
I thought to myself that each one of you could easily be featured in some great article on housekeeping!

What I loved about all the ideas and pictures is that they are so real life and yet so wonderful.
I am not one that goes for a sterile, stark, and cold environment.
Magazines and the pictures in it are lovely, but so often they feel so staged to me.
Like, really, someone actually lives there? not sure about that.
What I like is order and calm, but where it also looks inviting and warm.

And that is exactly what these pictures and ideas portray to me.
To say I’m thrilled with every single contribution is an understatement.
Thanks again, ladies, so very much!

I’m going to be separating the ideas into two separate posts, so if you sent me some pictures and ideas, you are not being forgotten!
[and I apologize for the long delay, it’s been a whirlwind here].
Also, if you were wanting to still send in some pictures you are welcome to do so.

 

Annnnnnd, *drum roll, please* here are the featured contributors!

 Esther offered some tips on organizing containers on her blog, as well as a kitchen tour after their remodel!
[I’d show pictures, but I’m not really a picture-stealer, so… :)]

 

 

 From Laura:

Just thought I would my two cents worth your organization article, Part II.
I am not by nature an organized/super clean person…however, I married one. =)

Anyway, having recently moved to a bigger house, (3 baths instead of one, 5 BR instead of 2, etc!)
I found it was really difficult to get an entire “Saturday cleaning” done in one day.
I might get all the cleaning done, but our meals suffered and it made me grouchy. =/
While I would prefer to have the entire house spotless at once, I divided all the cleaning into 6 days-
-Monday through Saturday, with Saturday being a very light day. Every day I do what’s on my list, and forget the rest!

General pick-up/put away gets done all through the house every day of course, but actual bucket-and-rag cleaning has its designated day.
It has worked wonderfully for me! I can do my days chores, then spend the rest of the day sewing or whatever I choose/needs attention,
without feeling bad about the rest. And yes, when company comes, the entire house does get cleaned all at once.
But for day to day, normal living, a little each day is perfect! Just wanted to share what works for me…”

 

From Tracy Cassel, some great tips on laundry and mudroom organizing…

“Here are a few pictures from my mudroom/laundry area.
These shelves hold my bigger pot and occassional kichen necessities.
We hang our coats on the bar that runs along the bottom.

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Another view of the same area. 

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To the left of the shelving is the front door of the mudroom.
I love having a place for all of our shoes and boots, back packs, and hats.
Under what we call the 'the shoe bench',
are three canvas boxes where socks and other winter gear are kept.
This works well for us.

 

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To the right of the shelves is my washer/dryer.
Right outside of the door is the back yard where my husband build me a large 'Amish'
wash line system a few years ago.
I hang my wash year round and only us the dryer on occasion.

 

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From Mary, with some wonderful organization…

This is in the nursery. Elizabeth’s changing table/dresser is right by her closet so I have this hanging inside the closet door.
It’s handy and keeps the dresser free of clutter.

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I love plate organizers! They’ve helped out with our dinner plates.
I’ve also liked having quite a few of those white things that fit into cupboards, I forget what they’re officially called.
They’re great for making efficient use of tall counter space; stuff can go on the top and bottom of these handy things.
 
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This is a cupboard above the stove. I love this for kids’ meds, adult meds and spices that I buy in bulk.

 

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Self-explanatory picture of where I keep paper products.

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The fridge! I am big on keeping this thing wiped out constantly because I don’t like a dirty fridge.
It takes seconds to wipe out a spot before I set something else in there.
I also move things as quickly as I can which helps with making sure food doesn’t get wasted.
If I have leftovers and there is still some left after already using some, I move this into a smaller container.
It helps keep the food looking nice :) which is more appealing and uses less space in the fridge.
My friend, Tracy, [look above! ~c] is the fridge queen and I’ve learned some of this stuff from her. :)

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 I am with you, Clarita, on not being sure how to store empty storage containers.
For as long as I’ve had my own house, I have stacked them with the lids on and that mostly works well.
I just think it takes too much space but this is how I do it……until I find a better way. :)

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This is my pantry. A few years ago, I saw this shoe thing used on the back of doors.
I’ve loved it especially for little things that might otherwise get lost on pantry shelves.
Using ice cream buckets isn’t the fanciest thing but it sure has helped keep stuff organized.
I typically keep bulk food in bags and then just stick it right into the bucket, it helps keep food stuff fresh.

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This is a cupboard right above the coffee machine.
I again used those shelf organizers to help keep the mugs organized and not falling over.
I still do stack the mugs on top of each other but now it’s only two instead of five or more. :)
It’s handy to have this right above the coffee pot.

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This is supposed to be over by the other picture that has the cupboard above the stove.
This is the other cupboard above the stove.
Lazy susans have been great just as you said in your post and for me, it’s been the best way to keep my vitamins and spices organized.
I love that these kinds of things are above the stove, away from eager beaver little hands that would love to have all this stuff. :)
 
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Aimee, from My *Pink* Life  said,

 “I like to think outside the box when it comes to organizing and running a house.
We don’t need to things like our moms and grandmas did things ~ this is something I’ve learned throughout my married life.
And sometimes what works for you doesn’t work for someone else.
You have to make solutions for yourself that work best for YOU.”

She referred me to a great post she did recently on a baking station –
just beautiful and yet practical, so worth visiting her site to see!

[sneak peek]

 

Thelma:
“I too have my little morning ritual. I’m much more in the mood to get my house in order in the a.m. then at night.
I always go through my upstairs rooms and put away any stray clothes, make the beds, put away random shoes,
clean off the bathroom counter, it’s amazing how it gives you this good feeling later when you dash through and see everything nice and neat,
at least in that part of the house. i do the same in my kitchen too…”

Bek said,
“I hate clutter and I feel like I’m always fighting it in this small house full of busy little children.
In the past year I’ve come to the solid belief that less is more. The kids can only play with so many toys.
I’m not going to throw away their precious toys, but i will pack half of them away for a while… then trade them out again.
It’s fun for them and I’m tripping over/picking up half the amount of the toys.

And clothing… used to pick up anything at yard sales, or on bargain racks.
It turned out that we all had a lot of clothes, but not much really nice to wear.
So… totally cut back. All the kids need is a few skits/pants, and a few nice shirts to go with them.
Of course there are a few Sunday dresses hanging in the closet too. But I love how it simplifies everything in their room.

And that’s about all I know. Organization is very much a work in progress around here!:)”

[I LOVE the trading out toys idea!! I’m definitely going to start doing this! [~c]

 

A reader:
“About your container drawer… ;)
I’ve found that if I keep all my containers in a cupboard, nested in each other as nicely as I can, and keep all the lids in a drawer, it works best.
I sort my lids- all the round ones in one drawer, and all the square, rectangular, or otherwise odd-shaped ones go in another drawer.
I have a very small kitchen, and I had to give up some other things that I really wanted in drawers & cupboards
to be able to do this, but it is by far worth it to me. “

And that concludes Part II! Thank you all so much again for your tips and tricks and contributions!

And Happy Leap Day!

~ clarita

Guest Post by the Sisters

Okay, so I am really really excited about this post.
Probably more excited than I’ve ever been about a post on my blog.
Probably because I didn’t write it. :)

It’s not every day that two lovely ladies call you up and ask to do a guest post on your blog.
Sure made me feel special that they thought my blog was cool enough.
Or maybe they thought it needed some help?? :)

I’m thrilled to introduce you to…
… my first guest post by two of my sisters!

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Modest is Hottest….

Or… New Ideas for the Practical Woman

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Together, I, Claudia, with my sister, Ervina Barkman-soon-to-be-Yoder, have combined our love for photography, our fascination with unique clothing combinations, and a deep gratitude for our sisterhood, to bring you the highly anticipated and most delightful post.
Of course, I had to take this opportunity to use the cheesy and bestest title ever. Hence… The title.

It was June 8. 2011. And We Committed.
On a plane enroute to Bangkok, Thailand, Ervina and I, made a most momentous decision… to cut off all communication with the Shopping-for-super-cute-and-fashionable-clothes-World.
Seeing as how I am a five year thrift-shop veteran, and Ervina a 10 year H&M veteran, this decision was not made lightly.
However, I convinced her that this was a pivotal decision for our lives, and so we decided on a One Year Clothing Fast. YAY!!

However, It only took a few months before Ervina realized I had pulled a fast one on her. “I’m sorry, But a wedding dress….” I regretfully told her, “ ….is not even an option.”
Of course, she found plan B, and planned her wedding for June 8, 2012, claiming that her dress was on a payment plan.

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Ok. Ok. I’m Lying. It was I, Claudia, who Heroically and quite alone(elly) committed to the 1-year clothing fasting plan. With the exception of:
A. Using Gift Cards (Not gonna lie. I thought about buying myself gift cards, so I had to add on:) …that have been given to me as gifts (Not gonna lie. Again, I thought about buying myself gift cards as gifts, so I had to add on:) FROM FRIENDS (Not gonna lie. I have pondered the question, “Am I my own Friend?”).
B. Clothing bought as a gift for Dear BoyFriend.
C. Maid of Honor dress for June, Bridesmaid dress for March.
D. 12 DIY projects

Since June 8, I have been having quite the fun wearing the same articles of clothing in as many different ways as is possibly possible. I have especially enjoyed bringing periodic heart attacks to Mother as I come downstairs in another t-shirt hacked into a vest or an old sweater made into a cardigan. Many thanks to Ervina, who has gone along with my swell inventions.
So. Today, we bring you Mother’s latest heart attack, in the form of a Scarf.

In Ervina’s Words: It all started with one of those decisions to stop shopping for clothes and begin exploring new ways to wear what’s in our closet. Naturally, you can mix and match and layer in lovely ways but our most recent [and fun] discovery was finding out how versatile a scarf can be. First of all, make sure it’s one that’s fairly large and either rectangular or square in size (triangular could become a bit scandalous). When worn as a skirt or tucked-in top, secure with a dramatic belt.

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The Bridal Shower

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It’s simple to create these outfits, really. Just brush up on your kindergarden shoelace knot and you just might be good to go. And If that doesn’t work, just pull out your HDDP (Handy Dandy Diaper Pin) for some added security. 

For the Scarf: Wrap once, twice, or thrice around neck. 

For the Skirt: Simply wrap the scarf completely around your body. Making sure that it is adjusted so that the bottom layers are even all around. Tie the two ends tightly together and tuck securely underneath a rad hipster belt. (If in a pickle. Resort to the HDDP for help) This can also be worn as a high-wasted skirt. 

For the Shirt:
Wrap the scarf evenly around the upper body, tying or HDDP-ing securely. This outfit can be completed by tucking in the scarf, wearing a big buckle belt, and finishing it off with a cardigan.

Even if none of these are exactly your idea of style, perhaps they’ll inspire you to reevaluate your wardrobe and have fun experimenting with unusual combinations of accessories — and save a few pennies while you’re at it.

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[ brought to you by the sisters ]

Scarves

 

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I loved this. I think because I learned so much from it. They are some of the most creative, unique but lovely dressers I know. I call them my fashion consultants. :)

When they told me their ideas, I was thinking, “A scarf as a skirt? What??”
But I sure wanted to see it. :) I think it’s fabulous.
And with two kids tugging at my skirts, I will most certainly be using the HDDP. :)

And I didn’t even realize until I read this that Claudia was on a one-year clothing fast. She definitely doesn’t take a martyr’s stance on it, but makes it a fun challenge.

So let them know how much you enjoyed this and maybe we can convince them to come back for re-runs. :)

~clarita

p.s. i’m still hoping for emails/pictures/messages with organizing tips from you all! or else there will be no second edition to the Second Edition. :)

 

Of Christmas Past

This week marks two weeks that we’ve been back in the south and in our own little house.
Back to the balmy 70′ days, although I don’t expect this to last all winter.
I’m just thankful for all the cold and snow we had in Colorado,
so now I don’t mind the warmth this time of year. As much. :)

It’s quiet time in the household.
One down for a nap, another quite content with paper, scissors, and glue stick.
And I quite content with a few cookies that a friend brought over yesterday…
If she knew how quickly we devoured that plate, well, I’d be embarassed. :)

We’ve had to find a new normal for our little family,
schedules and time change and even just being together most of the time.

In Colorado I was in class every morning, and now I find my patience stretched!
For three months we were only together half a day, and now we re-learn what is expected of each other.
Granted, in the past four weeks since leaving the west, it’s not been a normal schedule at all.
Much traveling and time with family and friends, and now getting resettled.

It’s taking the kids and me a bit of time to find a rhythm with each other again,
and honestly, there is some needed training that has been going on with the kids
as well as repentance and apologies from me.

I often think of the quote by Ann Voskamp,
I don’t remember whether it’s in her book or if I just read it on her blog one day…
The parent must always self-parent first,
self-preach before child-teach, because who can bring peace unless they’ve held their own peace?”

It’s so very true.
Unless my heart is first at rest with my God and with the today He’s given me,
I will never be able to welcome peace in my children or my home.
Peace is not brought by forceful words of, “Guys, play nice with each other!!!!!”
or various other strategies. It’s brought only by the Spirit of the Lord allowed to indwell.

And as a dear friend reminded me once,
sometimes that means falling to my knees at the kitchen sink and pleading for His Sweet Grace,
first of all to be lived out in me and then that I can share it with my children.

Even when it feels like I don’t have time to stop,
like there are things to deal with now and I have to keep moving,
nothing is more important than allowing the Sweet Spirit of Jesus
to be present and to be residing and in control.

It’s not that I have some little hellions on my hands, not at all. :)
But it’s just that I desire our home to be one of rest and peace,
not one of chaos and perpetual cat-fights.
And I do believe that with Jesus, that is possible. It just starts with me, not with my kids…

[of christmas past]

[the whole dear family]

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[the three dating couples, two of which are engaged!]

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[fun family times]

 

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[family rule for christmas eve and day]

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[brown paper packages tied up with string, and other pretty presents]

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[the tree, and homemade ornaments]

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[christmas eve candlelight dinner]
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Enjoy your today! And upcoming weekend!
~ clarita

 

 

 

Fresh-Squeezed Lemonade and Such

 

We’re off the rest of this week for a trip up to the northern parts, to leave the land of the hot and scalding and to hopefully get a happy little taste of weather to come. :)

This morning, actually, we woke up and the temperature was in the 70’s. That’s not happened for months and months – it’s been 80’s and 90’s for months on end! We had doors hanging wide open ~ it felt like autumn is coming!

We are so anticipating time with dear friends and family, and even the road trip time as a family. Preparing for three months in Colorado is big on our minds, and Ben has been working hard in order to prepare us to go. I understand it’s a season, and I’m fully supportive, but I will be very happy when we can have evenings and weekends together as a family again. :) But usually anything good takes sacrifice, right?

Letters.
From Cambodia. From my two sisters. ♥

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Olivia.
This little girl has boundless energy and keeps me on my toes from morning till night. She does bring boundless laughter to us though, and I think I laugh at her more than I’ve ever laughed at a little kid. And, to be honest, I probably get more exasperated at her too. :) She’s turbo power in a mini-body.

I tried to take a shower on Saturday night, after a rather hairy day of taking care of children and Ben working long hours an hour away. I thought if I just finally make it to the shower I’ll keep my sanity. The girls had their baths, the house was mostly cleaned up, and I was ready for a little bit of peacefulness. Olivia had refused a nap all day, so she was tired beyond reasoning.

I was finally in the shower, girls playing outside the restroom, I thought. My loofah was all nice and sudsy, and it was that wonderful feeling of “all will be well with the world.” I don’t know about you other moms, but when I get in the shower, I just like to to be nice and quiet, and a chance to be all alone. For five minutes. I love my children dearly, but the shower is off-limits when I’m in there.

There were repeated commands of telling the girls to close the door  and hey hey hey, play nice with each other. I lathered up one leg, ready to shave, when I heard the door swing open and both girls came in, Olivia needing to go potty. She hoisted herself up on the big potty, and I looked out the shower door just in time to see a stream hitting not the potty, but shooting out over the seat, onto her pajamas, and onto the floor.

Lathered leg or not, I was out of the shower, adding more wet (though of a different kind!) to the floor as I assisted the ending of that bathroom use. Then, because she had messed herself up, I just stripped her completely and brought her into the shower with me. First time for that, and she was thrilled.

Zoe saw the excitement of the moment, and before I knew it another little girl joined us in the shower. First time for her too. There were lots of giggles and squeals and they were really so happy and excited about how the day was turning out that I tried to join their mood too. :)

But that’s sort of how my days have been… I would not make a good single mom! And I’m so thankful that I’m not!

Zoe.
Zoe brings a different kind of style to the family. She’s big into getting herself dressed, and after I questioned this particular outfit and the matching ability, she assured me that “It matches just right! See, there are flowers on the top and flowers on the pants!” Oh, yes. Weak laugh. Flowers and flowers. Why did I not catch that? Real laugh follows. Oh well.

I won’t even stick a sign on her that says, “This child dressed herself!” :)

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Pancakes.
We love making pancakes… We found a wonderful recipe that uses all whole wheat, and they are wonderful!

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Lemonade.
The fresh-squeezed kind.
We absolutely love this, and keep it in the frig almost all summer long!

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Recipe:
4 lemons
2 cups sugar
1 gallon sized container

Slice lemons very thinly, taking off ends and throwing away.

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Put lemons and sugar in the gallon pitcher.

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Taking your hands, squeeze lemons and sugar all together and until they are a sticky mess and it smells delightful. Do make sure your hands are freshly washed.

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Let sit at least ten minutes, and up to a half hour. This helps the flavor be strong and sweet.

Mix with ice and water, fill to one gallon.

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Sit on your front porch, or have a friend over, or just sip it alone. Delicious!

Note: be sure to take the lemons out of the lemonade before you refrigerate it. Leaving them in will result in a very bitter rind taste.

Also, if you’re trying to watch your sugar intake, you can cut the sugar to one cup and add 1/2 teaspoon stevia powder, and mix as directed. I personally don’t care for this as much, but it does still give you fresh lemonade if you can’t have much sugar. Or you could use only stevia and increase it to 1 teaspoon.

This is also just wonderful if you slice a few strawberries and let them float on top. It gives a sweet lemony strawberry flavor and colors it pink without much effort.

And this was a very short post, for once in my life. :)

Happy week and weekending to you all! We’re off to a fun-filled week – first time out of state all summer
[very rare for us!]. Time with my dad’s side of the family, that I rarely see with living so far south. Time with friends that we love so much. Time with a dear aunt and her family. Friendship is such a precious gift!
Excitement reigns high!

And we’re off!

~clarita

Sewing Projects 101

It’s late. 12.:04am late. I’ve been working for the past 5 hours straight on yard sale things, preparing for our big 7-Family Yard Sale at our home on Saturday. I’m probably 75% of the way finished. :} I haven’t been pricing things the whole time – most of the time, actually, has been up in the 200 degree attic. Clearing away things in there that we thought we could fit in this house. We were wrong. Wrong wrong wrong.

Yes, I’m embarrassed by all the things we have – and I even had a yard sale last year before we moved! Living in a smaller house definitely is causing me to now be more ruthless and just get rid of things that we aren’t using, and won’t use in the near future.

Ridiculous how much “stuff” was upstairs in a little un-airconditioned landing, cause an unnamed person to be covered in perspiration from head to toe within minutes. I was ruthless in getting rid of things – if it’s been upstairs a year and I haven’t missed it, I’m not keeping it. Well, I only kept two things. :)

Even Zoe has been talking about “getting rid of stuff” – her stuff! Which is amazing, because she is Pack-Rat 101. We save, save, save, and then we save some more. I’m happy that some of the purging is rubbing off on her.

Except, wait, it wasn’t rubbing off. It was only talk. As the boxes were being brought down the stairs, into the air that was 50 degrees cooler (I’m being generous with my estimates), the girls thought Christmas had come, and went through every box and bag, finding “treasures” that I was hoping were never to be seen again.

“Mommy!! You were going to sell my PETS!” Zoe told me emphatically, after discovering some stuffed animals that I was hoping to hide from their sight and begone forever. Pets, huh? Now that IS sentimental. And emotional attachment. How dare I get rid of PETS?

Now, I’m exhausted after a busy day, but I also need to wind down, so I’m going to attempt to finish this post that I started yesterday. Posts usually take me at least a day or two. :)

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Let me just interrupt this post briefly to share some breaking news:

I’m the only sibling out of six that is in the United States at the moment! My two brothers are in Canada, two of my sisters are in Cambodia for 3 months, and my other sister has been touring Paris and Italy the past two weeks.

Soo, while my sister is dreamy-eyed and touring Italy, and my brothers sing sonnets, and my sisters love on poor children in Cambodia,  I sit at home and sew. :) Ha, that sounds like I’m having a hard time, but really, I’m so excited for all of them!

Seeing pictures of Venice has me thinking… If Venice, a mere man’s creation, is so unbelievably beautiful and breathtaking, how much more beautiful and break-taking will Heaven be, created by God Himself? It’s unfathomable!

I’m thinking also of living intentionally, with purpose. My sisters are writing on a blog while they’re in Cambodia. Both of them are incredible writers, with hearts fully of love for God and love for others… You can follow them here.

On to the Sewing Projects. My sewing projects have nothing to do with Venice, for that matter. But Venice has had me thinking of heaven. And until I get there, I want to embrace my life right now, the life God has given me! Little sewing projects and all!

Being very much inspired by baileyandme2, inanorchard, and fruitloops in the past few months by all their genius sewing projects, I decided to put my hand to the plow and be brave enough to try the [frightful, daunting] attempt to make clothing for my little girls.
I’ve done quite a bit of projects around my home. Window panels, pillows, and such like. But clothing scared me.

Probably because I remember an attempt two or three years back when I was trying to be cool like another amazing seamstress and sadly failed. The little dress I had tried to make for the then one-year old Zoe was a hopeless failure. So much for a wanna-be seamstress on her glory-streak of amazing clothing.

And I resigned myself to the fact that I can sewing window panels and pillows. Not clothing. Except simple embellishing, like so:

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^^ This was not technically a sewing project. It was a, um, hot glue gun project. :) That is my all-time favorite household item! Hot glue and a strip of lace around the front of a plain tank, and it makes a great layering accessory.

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^^ This was an actual sewing project. But I bought the roses in a strip at Wally World (I didn’t make each individually) and sewed it on the top , front only. Then sewed a wide piece of lace around the bottom, to add length and a bit of dressing-up.

I’ve done quite a bit with lace accents. I hope lace doesn’t go out of style quickly, because I love it so!

For my sister’s birthday, I bought a simple tank at Target, and sewed 3-inch black lace and tulle on it in random strips. This looked so pretty when she wore it under a simple cardigan!

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A canvas tote that I sewed white and cream wide lace onto, sort of the same idea as the tank, and added a flower. Another sister’s birthday gift.

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I’ve taken plain skirts and tried to make them sort of fancy-nancy like.

[before & after]

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I’ve taken plain skirts and tried to make them sort of fancy-nancy like.

[before & after]

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I’ve taken plain skirts and tried to make them sort of fancy-nancy like.

[before & after]

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But this spring, after seeing all the amazing projects of the amazing seamstresses above, I decided to try again.

My expectations were this high:         . Yep, that’s right, they weren’t there. Nonexistent. In a very secret place [my house], and without telling a soul, I began my undertaking. If I failed, no big deal. I’ve done that before. If it worked, then great!

And what do you know, but I actually sort of liked what my sewing machine turned out! Not babygap or anything, but still, some little sundresses and skirts that would work wonderfully for this summer. And made with pocket change.

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Before: a women’s size dress, but desperately short and not something I’d wear. But Christy found it when we were Goodwill shopping [$4] together, and I adored the fabric! Sort of vintage-y, but ever so fun! She was the one that suggested I make a dress for Zoe from it. And I thought it a wonderful idea! I added it to my stash of about 15 up-cycling projects. :)

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After: Taking something from an existing piece of clothing, I’ve found, is FAR simpler than making a whole new outfit. I had to cut down the sides, which I used to make straps for the shoulders, and cut down the piece at the very top. I didn’t cut the length at all (which shows how short it would have been on an adult), liking the longer length on a little girl for something different.

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Zoe looks less than thrilled on this picture, but truth be told, she is delighted to be holding a cherry tomato from our little garden plot, and is very proud of the dress. :) Much the delight of the mother!

I call this, The Mini Maxi. I made it for Zoe, but Olivia, never wanting to be out-done, wanted to try it on. So I put it on her, and sat back at laughed at the tiny little girl in what looked like a maxi dress! I’ve never seen toddler-sized maxi dresses, but this sure was cute. Paired with some silver flats, it was perfect! :)

This was made from an adult sized sun dress [goodwill: $4]. I had to remove the bottom ruffle and sew it back on. Zoe also wears this, and it’s about knee-length on her.

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The Candy-Stripe Skirt Dress:  Zoe’s dress was a ladies’ skirt [goodwill: 88 cents] that I cut down and added straps at the shoulders. I liked how this turned out too.

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The Green Skirt:

There is no ‘before’, but I used an x-large or xx-large men’s shirt [goodwill, bargain bin, 88 cents] to make this. Elastic at the waist, a bit of lace at the bottom, and a little bit of sewing. And a flower, made by cutting out circles and ovals of all different sizes and laying them on top of each other from largest to smallest. I think  I saw the idea on an Old Navy shirt earlier this year…

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[I did end up having to sew the ‘petals’ just right along the edge. The fabric was very lightweight, and the tiny weight of the flower made it sort of hang off the side.]

The Black & White:

This is probably my least favorite, but it still works as a play skirt.  I was imagining it to be a bit more full, but two smaller ladies’ shirts from Goodwill [88 cents@, bargain bin] was too good a price to let go. I used a shirt with a scallop on the bottom and lined the striped part with it, letting it hang out underneath.

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And I call this: My Fave.

Before: Very pretty skirt, castoff from my sister [for an unknown reason]. So, free. :) Had it fit me, I never would have stuck a scissors in its charming design.

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After: Added tucks on the bottom because it was far too long [think, Victorian hoop skirt length]. The gathers in the midst of the tucks weren’t exactly what I was expecting, but because it was so full, and because I didn’t want to cut it lest I loose the beautiful lace on the bottom, the gathered tucks were okay.

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Something about the color of this dress too, is so perfect with her coloring. Definitely my favorite. I made a flower like the one on the green skirt, cutting circle and ovals of various sizes, and adding ‘leaves’ from lace that I cut off the sides. I added a few pearly beads to the center of the flower to give it some little extra pretties.

I also hot glued lace on the tank that Zoe is wearing underneath the dress [my whites are washed out in this picture, you can hardly see it], and it adds a nice dress-up touch to an outfit.

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This was second favorite, a sweater-dress, repurposed from a 50 cent re-use-it shop adult sweater. My sister-in-law, Mary Jo, did this last fall, and I thought it was soooo adorable and SO cheap! All credit goes to her for her inspiration! The tutorial she [and then I] followed is this.

I was so pleased with how it turned out! And for fifty cents and a half hour of sewing, it sure beats the expensive sweater dresses I saw various places over the winter. I made this a bit larger so she can wear it next winter.

No before pictures of this, but it was a medium size women’s sweater.

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I get stuck on my embellishments. Again, a little flower – just three circles cut out of the extra sweater fabric, zig-zagged so it doesn’t fray in the laundry, and a big button in the middle.

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It makes me smile when Zoe goes into her closet, choosing what to wear that day, or to go on an outing, and she’ll put out one of the dresses that I made! Over all the other darling Old Navy and Target and other cute dresses in her closet, she likes mine! And she’ll tell everyone who will listen, “My mommy made this dress!” :)
Even Olivia caught on to the gist of things, saying constantly, “My mommy made dis!” about all sorts of things. Mainly things I haven’t made, and couldn’t even attempt to. :)

And a few more projects…

And in non-sewing things, but still involving fabric… [a.k.a. “my safe {non-clothing} zone”]

A Spring/Summer Wreath

Before: I picked it up at a local thrift store for a dollar. I wanted the form.  Isn’t it a beauty? :) [read my sarcasm, please] I was laughing to Ben the other day, because I go into this thrift store and buy all the ugliest things they have in there and repurpose them! There is one clerk that is always in there, and she probably wonders what in the world my house looks like, by the looks of the stuff I buy!

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After: I picked off all the cloth strips, held by hair pins.

A spring/summer wreath, inspired by JonesDesignCompany.com.  Please don’t look at her tutorial though, because mine looks sadly unlike hers. :)
You take a very very long piece of burlap [I had linen on hand and used that instead of buying burlap] and sew a loose stitch. (okay, so this does have a little bit of sewing) Gather it, and hot-glue it onto a wreath form, as shown above. Add moss, make little white flowers, add little eggs (mine were grapes that I rolled in glue and glitter because I couldn’t find any at Walmart. Silly Walmart.), look in your yard for cute twigs, pull a mini nest from the mantel, and hot glue it all together. Ta-da! A very happy little wreath.

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Comparison aside from the jonesdesigncompany, I love the little nest wreath on my front door.

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Some headbands, made for an order from My Faire Lady.

June, Hair Pretties 056 June, Hair Pretties 043 June, Hair Pretties 051 [satin & lace white, satin & tulle hot and light pink, satin & tulle white)

The best hair bow and flower organizer ever, inspired by Pottery Barn.
This was a custom-made for my sister-in-law in colors she chose. So pretty!
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A few new pillows for around the house…

I think I cut out the little flowers for these pillows last fall already. Thinking I was going to sew them all on, I stalled… and stalled.

The first is felt flowers on white fabric. This is technically not sewing either, since I already had the pillow covers made. My stalling was in vain. It was easy-peasy. This is another hot gluing project. :)
[note to self: use exceedingly much hot glue, or else the flowers will be found floating. shortcuts are not always the best, i sadly learned.]

felt on white [inspiration: Pottery Barn]

Felt on felt. I’m not sure if I like the slight contrast better, or the tone on tone.
Hot gluing troubles aside, I really did like how the glue in the center makes the flowers stand out just a bit since the edges aren’t sewn down.

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And the front porch. Same idea as the small flowers above, but in much larger scale, and layered on top of each other. These I did sew. :) Also felt on felt. I like the looks of it, but it does tend to pick up lint and fuzz very quickly. Oh, and cat hair. :{

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And what do my children do while I’m projecting and sewing?

Well, they play sweetly and happily, with nary a sound or squabble, of course.

But of course, ‘sweetly and happily, with nary a sound or squabble’ is all because they were busy one afternoon doing THIS:

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and THIS:

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and this:

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I really do think they know better. But in the midst of sewing projects, I’ve also been doing some painting projects – writing words on my walls, and such things. So naughty, yes, they were. But how could I be too upset when they were just doing what mommy does?? Exasperated, yes. Very.

My forgiveness came quite readily when I realized though, that they had used WASHABLE markers to do their artwork. ‘Relief’ doesn’t even begin to describe my feelings!

However, they heard some things from their mother along the lines of “we do not write on walls or doors or dresses without permission [no, i wouldn’t give them permission if they asked,  but just saying]. and little girls need to clean up messes that they make!” and they were handed wet rags and cleaning spray. Which all turned into sort of a game, with giggles and laughing.

In the which the mother wondered whether they really understood the memo about not writing on walls and doors and dressers…

And now my winding down is complete. :)
~clarita

One Year at the Cottage

Today is a celebration of one year in the Cottage!

When we bought this bungalow in January of 2010, this is how is looked.

I was depressed for three days after going through this house!
It had great bones, and so much character in this hundred year old house,
but it needed SO MUCH WORK.

After four months of working on it full-time, we moved in on May 31, 2010.

It still needed quite a bit of work. :)
The landscaping looked like the above picture, even though the exterior had been painted like below.

One year later, there is still work to be done! :)
But I took this picture this morning,
to celebrate one year
of being in our dear little cottage!

After four years of being in a rental house,
being able to own our own home once again was a dream come true!

 

There is still work to be done, but it feels like home…. ♥
We love the little Cottage at 341 South!

~ clarita